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Smart ways to cut down your wedding costs

How to Cut Short Wedding Expenses?

Human society is divided into many groups and strata according to their financial status and living facilities. There are three main strata: Elite society, being the richest having beau crates, government officials and traders, mediocre society includes government servants, educationists and company employees, third is lower society which is comprised of labourers and all low paid employees.
Wedding is no such big deal for the aristocratic society and to some extent for the lower strata as the latter had mentally accepted one another’s poverty so their demands for the wedding expenses are lesser in number. The problem of wedding and its expenses lie in the middle class society as they want to be no less than the aristocratic society! They also don’t want to be the part of the lower strata so keeping their egos with them they started collecting money or things named as dowry right from the day when the baby girl come to the age!
To facilitate them in cutting off the expenses on wedding of a daughter especially here are some tips and measures which could save their time and financial budget.

Crop down the guest list:

Besides dowry gathering, the expenses of hall is too much for the parents so, instead of inviting the whole family on the wedding, invite the couples only with no other family member. By doing this, no one would be felt unfelt and uninvited rather they would understand the position of the host parents.

Prefer low cost wedding invitation cards:

Expensive and decorative invitation cards are total waste of money as people will just see the inner leafs of the card and for a few seconds would admire the beauty and aesthetic sense of the card then it would be left on the side table or any other corner! The important thing is the place and date of the wedding and nothing else! Invitation to the closest one could be send through any social media app!

Ask your guest to contribute to the wedding:

The respectable guests would definitely arrive at the wedding hall with some gift as it look odd to come there with empty hands. The host parent should give money in place of gift no matter a thousand or so as tiny drops makes the mighty oceans!

Wedding dresses:

To look beautiful is everyone’s dream and to make this dream come true, the host family spend too much money on wedding dresses and go deeper into theme dresses, matching shoes, make up, jewelry and so on! Bridal dresses are no less than 5 to 10 thousand and what is the use of such expensive dresses as they are worn just once as ladies don’t prefer to repeat the dress as is insulting for them! By wearing or utilizing the old clothes, the expenses could be cut down to a greater extent. The bride could bargain a dress from her friend or any other family member (aunts).

Avoid expensive traditions and rituals:

Wedding nowadays are more dramatic rather than constituting of a newer home, a newer community and a newer kin! Everyone is after the silly showcase of traditions and wasting too much money in this regard. By cutting down the unnecessary rituals, a lot of money could be saved.

Avoid expensive wedding halls:

Just to satisfy your ego or to be admired by others, don’t go for expensive wedding halls with a list of facilities, chillers, air conditioners, heaters, warm lights, expensive crockery, decoration with imported real flowers, disco lights etc. In place of halls go for caterers and cut the budget according to your choice or take help of your acquaintances in cooking and serving the guests rather than to put everything at the disposal of the catering companies. It would be good to go and see the meat quality, cooking quality and the cleanliness of the utensils used in the wedding ceremony.

Dowry budget:

Dowry includes all electronic items ranging from imported iron to double door fridge and automatic washing machines, many includes air conditioner too as the groom was living in caves earlier! The room furniture includes sofas, central tables, bed, dressing table, tea trolley and what not! The 72 pieces dinner sets: crystal, marble, plastic and a non-stick cooking set. Water set, separate glass and tea set, serving set, soup set and cake set, many includes ice cream set as well as if groom’s family was eating on bananas leaves! Gold jewelry is a great budget sucker! Daughters and their in laws demand how much tola sets!! And this attitude cost 7-8 lac to the parent and what if the parent had five daughters???
In order to cut this budget only go for the things that are not available in the groom’s house and gently tell them your problem as relations are not made on the basis of things, but on humane grounds and bride’s character, education, qualities and management skills must be taken into consideration rather than her pretty looks and number of item in her dowry as it’s the character that stays and rules and all other things perish away!
By carefully looking into the wedding expenses and cutting down the unnecessary things, weddings could be made easier and parents of the daughter should send the fee bills and sets of books in dowry too just to acknowledge the education side of the bride and expenses (unseen) made on her!

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Leave Application due to Wedding

Leave Application due to Wedding . Weddings are part and parcel of any society and a new beginning of family structure leading to a different society and community. Nowadays marriages are tiresome as many functions had been added into it and leaves are must.

Leave Application due to Wedding

To,
Mr. Manager,
Alan and Sundry System,
Texas, United State of America.

Subject: Requesting leaves due to younger brother’s wedding

Respected Sir,

It is to state with due respect and honor that I am Mr. Yew Layman and an assistant manager in this excellent firm. It is to intimate you that my younger brother is getting married this month and being the only elder brother it is incumbent upon me to take charge of his happy day. For that reason I am applying for a week’s leave as wedding is planned in our native land which is outside this station. Please grant me the said leaves and make me thankful. Kindly see to this matter on personal level and make me thankful. Thank you.


Yours Truly,

Mr. Yew Layman.
28th April, 2019.

Leave Application due to younger Sister’s Wedding

To,
Mr. Managing Director,
Joe and Sundry System,
Texas, United State of America.

Subject: Requesting leaves due to younger sister’s wedding

Respected Sir,

It is to state with due respect and grace that I am here to tell you that sisters are blessings of God and in them we live! They are the beautiful vibrant colours of our lives and it automatically becomes our obligation to see to their happiness. In the coming week, my sister’s wedding is planned with a good guy. Kindly see to this matter at your earliest and make me thankful. Thanking you in anticipation.

Yours Truly,
Mr. Jew Layman
28th April, 2019.

Application for Marriage Allowance to Boss


Marriage and Married Couple’s Allowance. Marriage Allowance Application Format. Sample Application for Marriage Allowance from company, office, factory, employer. Everyone can use this application as a sample for requesting marriage allowance. Necessary changes can be done.

Application for Marriage Allowance to Boss

To,
The CEO.
United India Insurance Company,
Bombay, India.

Sub: Request for marriage allowance

Respected Sir,

It is stated respectfully that I am an employee of this organization for past three years. It is my good fortunate that I got into this organization which is so supportive and seems like a family to me now. I am writing this application to inform you that my marriage has been fixed on 4th of January 2019. It is a very exhilarating moment for me and also for my family but as you know that I don’t belong from a very well off family so the pressure of marriage is very hard on us. It is my request to please grant me the marriage allowance as per the terms and conditions in the agreement made between m and organization on the time of joining. It will be very liberative if I get the allowance as early as possible. This organization has always taken care of its employee which has made employees stick loyal to this company.

Marriage Allowance Application Format

To,
The CEO,
India textile manufacturing company

Subject: Request of marriage allowance

Dear Sir,

It is humbly stated that my name is Ms. Rekha Ankul and I work in this company for past three years. I have been a very keen and vigorous employee and has been awarded by the title of “employee of the month” many times due to my unconditional dedication and outstanding work. It is to inform you with immense pleasure that my marriage date has been fixed i.e. 4th of February 2019.
As you know, that I am an orphan and eldest in siblings, my daily life is itself a struggle and things get out of hands mostly. I am pleased to be a part of a company who promises marriage allowances. Please give me, as soon as possible, my marriage allowance so I can continue the arrangements of wedding. I will be very grateful for this. I am looking forward to have a consideration from you for my request.


Yours Truly,
Ms. Rekha Ankul.
29 th Dec, 2018

Sample Leave Application for Supporting the Family

Sample leave application for supporting the family.Family Emergency Leave Letter. No family, no life and these formats are for those persons who are willing to take leave so that they can share the burden of their family.

Sample Leave Application for Supporting the Family

To,
Mr. Principal,
All and Sundry System,
Texas, United State of America.

Subject: Requesting leave for supporting the family by the
teacher

Respected Sir,

It is to state with due reverence and honor that I am the eldest in the family and luckily the most valued one too as my family rely too much on me in almost everything. I need to get a leave for three days after the weekends so that I can travel to them and support them in the wedding event of my youngest sister. I hope you understand the worth of the family and the bonds tied to them.Thank you and looking forward for a kind action.

Yours Sincerely,

Mr. Ram,
20th November, 2018.

Sample Requesting Leave for Supporting the
Family

To,
Mr. Manager,
All and Sundry System,
Texas, United State of America.

Subject: Requesting leave for supporting the family by the
employee

Respected Sir,

It is to state with due respect and honor that my father is ill and he is currently shifted from the I.C.U ward yesterday. The hospital bill is much more than the expectations and finances of the family. I am needing by them on urgent basis for the discount and clearance in the bill as I am the only one on whom they can put their trust on. I need a week’s leave for this purpose so the matter can be resolved at full gallop.Thank you and looking forward for a generous and prompt action.

Yours Truly,

Mr. Moon,
3rd November, 2018.

Sample Leave Letter due to Own Marriage Ceremony

Sample leave letter due to own marriage ceremony. This easy format is for those individuals who wish to have leaves in connection to their own marriage.

Sample Leave Letter due to Own Marriage Ceremony

To,
The Principal,
Great Vision virtual College for Girls,
California, United States of America.

Subject: Request of leave due to own marriage ceremony

Respected Sir,

Good day! How are you? I hope you will be fine in your life and enjoying the bounties of the fate thrown on you. It is to state with much pleasure that I am going to marry in December, 2018. This day was much awaited by my parents as I was the only daughter left unmarried and there was no suitable match found for me. I am the youngest one and gained age of 30! This was too much for my parents and they wanted to get me married to a man whom I deserve.
A well poised man and a perfect match is difficult to find, but it is my luck, may be, that I got the person who is fit for me. Who deserve me and to whom I deserve. After tremendous search of ten years, I got to lay my hand on such a good person. Finally, the marriage date is fixed on 20 th December, 2018. I wanted to enjoy my day and for that I am applying for one month leave starting from 1 st December till 31 st December, 2018. I know it is not admissible in this system, but this is the reason I am writing an application well before time to cater the extra bound leaves on my behalf and I would be grateful to you. Thank you for your time and attention.

Best Regards,

Ms. Curie Eked,
25 th August, 2018.

Sample Military Leave Letter

Sample military leave letter.  Letter format of requesting military leave approval letter. Sample approval of military leave. Military leaves are hard nuts to crack as they do not pay heed to lame excuses and never grant the leaves on trivial matters. This easy format can be a real help for those who spare time to run after their dreams.

Sample Military Leave Letter

To,
The Commander,
Armed Forces Department,
California, United States of America.

Subject: Requesting military leave approval letter

Respected Sir,

With due respect and honour it is to state that I have been postponing my marriage since the last year due to the then
engagement of my unit in Afghanistan. After serving there for a year and bringing the situation under control, I finally reached back this weekend. I received a call from the Unit officer ordering me to get back to the work which is really difficult for me. My marriage has been fixed next week, therefore I request your permission for the grant of marriage leave. I will be thankful to you for favourable action. Thank you.

Yours Truly,

Mr. Andrew Tom,
4th February, 2018.

Sample Request Letter of  Military Leave Approval

To,
The Commander,
Armed Forces Department,
California, United States of America.

Subject: Requesting military leave approval letter

Respected Sir,

Please be informed that last month I was facing some serious health issues which were to be diagnosed. I had my checkups and was diagnosed with deprivation of the white blood cells. Proper treatment was given and I got better. But since last two days I faced the same issue and got my check up done by the doctor. Along with the treatment he has suggested me bed rest for better and prompt healing. Therefore, I want to proceed on leave for better results and treating the illness for good. I will be thankful to you for favourable action. Thanking you in anticipation.

Yours Sincerely,

Mr. Martin Roy,
6th February, 2018.

Letter of Invitation to Bridal Shower

Sample format of Letter of invitation to Bridal Shower. Setting trends in wedding is one form of creativity and people enjoy it very much. Those who wanted to follow the innovation can opt this easy format for inviting close friends relatives on bridal shower.This event is very important in marriage ceremonies.

Sample Letter of invitation to Bridal Shower

To,
The Family of Duke of Sapphires,
Manchester.

Subject: Letter of invitation to Bridal Shower

Respected and very own Duchess,

Signora, we had heard of your generosity and finest and refined taste in aroma and odours from people whosoever got the chance to meet you. We are feeling delighted that you are kind enough to accept the invitation from people like us as well.

It is a time of pride for every parent that their daughters are married to whom they were desired the most. My daughter is a promising would be bride to Lord of Nottingham. Before the actual wedding proceedings, we had arranged a Bridal Shower and for that we desperately wanted your attention and presence as well.

We had hired the best places and photographers together with the make-up artist as befitting to our status. Flowery decoration will be much appreciated by your highness, I hope. There are exotic perfumes and in music we had a combo of Jazz and Blues notes especially for your ear of music.

We hope you will come and make our shower the ever brightest and gleeful as ever. The timing for Bridal Showers are three consecutive days as we decided to cover almost all the fascinating places of Switzerland and Singapore. Your travel expenses will be bear by our host family. Looking feverishly for your coming.

Yours Sincerely,
Lord Betty,
March 5, 2016

Leave Application Due to Own Marriage

Sample leave application for your own marriage ceremony from employees/teachers/workers, Easy Formats of marriage leave application for your own marriage are given below for your convenience.

Leave Application Due to Own Marriage Sample

To,
The Director
Fiffa International

Subject: Leave Application for Marriage Ceremony

Respected Sir,

Please be informed that my marriage ceremony will be on 24th October. I am feeling blessed to tell you about this. Sir, I need ten days leave for marriage arrangements. Kindly approve my holidays from 22nd October to 1st November.

It would be my privilege to invite you in this grand marriage ceremony event.Hope to receive a positive response from your side.

Thanking you
Robert Joseph

Leave Application due to my Marriage

To,
The Human Resource Manager,
General Optics,
Minnesota, USA.

Subject: leave application due to marriage

Respected Sir,

I have received your letter of congratulations and best of wishes. I am glad that I work in such a supportive environment. As is known by all by now, I shall be getting married by the end of this month. I have been informed that employees are entitled to leave for two weeks with full pay if they get married.

I request your cooperation in this regard since I need time off from work in order to make this transition in life and adjust to new circumstances. There is a lot left undone and I have to make the arrangements too. I shall be obliged if I am granted leave with full pay during these days. I will return to active duty as soon as possible once you confirm the leave policy.

Yours Truly,
Miss Margaret Noble
14 th July, 2013.

Leave Email for Teachers due to Own Marriage

Respected Principal,

With extreme regard, this is to inform you that by the blessings of Almighty I am getting married in the upcoming week. As I already had a meeting with you regarding this so, I would love to join back after some days off for the ceremony. I need leave for a month in order to celebrate and perform all rituals before and after ceremony. You have to arrange substitution teacher till then, I will take over the charge as soon as I come back. For the wedding ceremony, I have traveled to my hometown and that is why I am unable to provide you written application. I found e-mail to be best option to stay in touch with you. I hope you will sanction me leave for the month of October. I shall be highly obliged for this.

Thanking you ahead of time.

Yours Sincerely,

Neeha.
Science Teacher

Leave Email due to Wedding from Office

Mr. James Collins

General Manager,
Green Tech.

Respected Sir,

With high esteem and merriment I have to inform you about the wedding ceremony of mine which is to be held on October 6th, 2015. I am glad to pass this news among the staff and management. At this enchanting occasion of my life I am in need of leave for a week. Please grant me leave from 6th October to 12th October, 2015. Kindly, accommodate my plea so that I can enjoy the upcoming bright days happily and without any stress. You can forward the confirmation to me through email.  I shall be your beholden.

Thanking you I remain.

Yours Sincerely,

Green Jim
Accounts Officer.

Leave Email due to Wedding from Office
Leave Email due to Wedding from Office

Teacher Leave Application due to Marriage

To,
The Principal,
Allied Military School,
California, United States of America.

Subject: Leave application due to marriage

Respected Sir,

With due respect it is to state with that I am an employed here in this institute as an English Teacher and designated as Subject coordinator as well. I am getting married at the end of this month. The settlement of my marriage pearled together in so sudden a way that it is a shock for me as well and I am very well aware that marriage leave has to be filed well before time, but in my case it all took few days to get it mature so I regret not to follow the set criteria for taking leaves from the school.

Kindly grant me the leaves for my marriage from tomorrow as it is considered a bad omen in my family if the bride goes out once she got engaged.Thank you.

Yours Truly,
Ms. Amreeta Jones,
13 th February, 2017

Leave Application for Parents Marriage Anniversary

Sample application format for leave on Parents Marriage Anniversary.This format of application is on permanent basis in educational institutions of all kinds. Easy leave application format is here.

Leave Application for Parents Marriage Anniversary

To
The Principal,
Ada Yaar Chakraborty School
New Delhi, India.

Subject: Application for Leave on Parents Marriage Anniversary

With all due respect,it is to state that I am a student of class SSC part 1 in this school from the past many years. I am a good reputed student and worked hard in my educational career and I am very punctual too. No leave without any solid reason in entitled with my name for any issue. Today is my parents Marriage anniversary and the whole kin is invited for this occasion so kindly accept my leave for tomorrow as well because it’s a late night function and I cannot come due to sleep deficiency. Thank you.

Yours Truly,
Monati
11th August 2015.

Leave Application for Parents Marriage Anniversary
Leave Application for Parents Marriage Anniversary

Loan Application for Daughter Marriage

Application for Marriage Loan.This application can used by the people who are going to get their daughter/sister married soon and they are facing some financial difficulties so they are going to request the manager to make all the necessary arrangements.This is request application to employer or boss for loan regarding daughter/sister’s marriage ceremony.Format is given below.

Application for Marriage Loan to Boss

The Manager,
Falcon’s Association.

Subject: Application for Marriage Loan

Respected Sir,

I have been a part of your organization from the past six years. Everyone in the office is well aware of my good conduct and positive behavior. In my career with this company I have never given anybody a chance for complain. I am a very hardworking and friendly worker and my past record shows that I have been an asset to this company.

I want to inform you humbly that my sister is getting married next month on 10th June, 2015. I am the eldest one in the house. We are not financially well that we can handle all the marriage responsibilities fully. So I request you to make arrangements for my sister’s wedding. These arrangements will include food and banquet hall expenses. You are a generous person and I know that you will be helping me in this crucial time. I have made many arrangements but I am still out of budget and I request you to help me out. I will be really grateful to you for this kindness and I assure you that I will return the money as soon as possible in installments form. You can keep a record of it and make it more authorize if you have any problems.

I will be waiting for your prompt reply as I need assistance immediately.

Thank you,

Yours Faithfully,
Raza Ali
Assistant Officer Admin

Application for Marriage Loan to Boss
Application for Marriage Loan to Boss

Loan Application format for Marriage of Daughter from Company

Dear Sir,

I have been doing this job for past ten years and this company has always taken care of all of its employees. I am writing this application as I am in severe need of loan for my daughter marriage. I have to feed the stomach of five and I am the only bread earner of the house. With supporting education of each child, it is nearly impossible for me to afford all the expenses of my daughter marriage. This is my sincere request to you to please lend me some loan by the company for my daughter marriage. I shall be beholden if you consider my request and grant me loan as early as possible.

Yours Sincerely,
Robert Margo